Don’t find any question but I for one cannot accomplish the things I want to do. This is not a question but maybe you have some answers to it.

Be happy, enjoy what you have or or are accomplishing. There will be always things you will not accomplish.

There has to be balance in everything but when your heart and mind are talking different things what happens?

Your energy is weakened. You are split. You are not being true to yourself. You are out of your power.

I want to protect environmental values. Therefore I find the idea of adding extra values to everyday actions for the benefit of everyone as a beautiful but also problematic idea. Isn’t the valueless environment the one that looses in the trade off of these human values? Since these mental values as joy and pride still come from the addition of resources from the environment in some way.

It is not about making a big or little effect. It is about being the best person you can be by finding your value and creating your value. The greatest value we can be for others is for them to find their unique value so they can create their value. Value does not have to come from our external environment, 80% of business in the USA is in services.

Who is your greatest inspiration?

Who? It is what that triggers my inspiration e.g. It is what they are being or expressing that inspires me. Could be a baby swimming and expressing joy, or the supermarket owner I met today about how he is bringing good spirit into his work, i.e. what is expressing life/aliveness, i.e. making a difference.

I invite you to join us in unlocking the secret code of the law of attraction in action.

Synchronicities

Here we are at lunch, at an Indian restaurant in downtown Helsinki, on a brilliant new summer’s day sitting with my good friend, a public relations manager for a well known company, and we are talking about burn out.

“It was amazing. We had lunch and were chatting just like this and the next day I heard he was in hospital having collapsed from burn out. He seemed totally himself. No signs of stress.”

Our good friends eyes widen “Amazing! Only this morning I heard a similar story. My friend works in an office and suddenly one of her associates climbs up on the window ledge wanting to throw herself out. It was though a switch was suddenly turned. And I’m hearing stories like this almost every week now.” She face was a mixture of amazement and deep concern.

Beside me on the table is a book I had an hour earlier purchased by chance. I had gone into the bookshop and what first caught my eye at the far end was a set of CDs titled The Law Of Attraction. I picked them up and read the back cover and said to myself “Interesting. CDs. No, not for me. When would I get time to listen to CDs?”, and there were four of them.

Then I spoke to the shop assistant to see if she could search her phone book to find the hospital my friend was in. She found the address and kindly located the hospital on a map and then turning to go I thought “I must have a quick look to see if there is a book for me.” And there it was right in front of me. The very book the CDs were about with the same name as the CD’s.
“Twice. Can’t be an accident.” So I purchased The Law Of Attraction.

She asks about the book. What can I say, I hadn’t even opened it. Handing it to her, I said “Just open it up wherever you like and read the first words that meet your eye.” She hesitates for a split second. Opens it and, where her eyes fell, she reads to us “The world’s hospitals are full of people suffering from dysfunctional thinking…”

Her mouth drops open and she leans back, bolt upright in her chair. “Oh no! The hairs on my arms are standing on end. I have goose bumps all over! How can that be?” She places the book on the table all the while gazing at us wide-eyed searching our faces for an answer.

Some Clues

As we walk back to her office, we reflect on the possibilities. An accident perhaps? The chances were too remote. “There must be some principle at work. A law. What is it?” We say goodbye and go to the park to sit in the sun on a bench and see if we can unravel the code of how the law works.

On the back of your parking ticket we write what we believe could be keys to the code:

• Something that fills our mind. In our case, burn out.
• Something that we are emotionally charged about. Our friend was obviously concerned about stories she was hearing of people suddenly suffering from burn out.
• An action. Opening the book was her action.

Thought and emotion in action attracts what is in keeping with the thought and the emotion.

“Did she create the outcome?” you ask.

“Yes and no. The book was there. The words she read were already written. Did she simply connect her inner reality of her thoughts and emotion to the outer reality that was there?”

“Like two worlds colliding.”

“Yes. But what are these two worlds?”

“Is one world what we think and feel and the other world just an infinite world of possibilities, some already in form and some that have the potential to take form?”

“Seems like it. But what are we then? Are we, you and me, just a world of infinite possibilities? Is that who we are?”

We both fall into silence reflecting on the enormity of the idea.

You speak first. “Perhaps there are not two worlds at all. Could it be that it is all just one world with our ‘inner world world’ of thought and emotion just being an integral part of our so-called outer world?”

“No separation you mean? All the one stuff?”

“Yes.”

“But you are not me and we are not her.”

“At a sensory level you are right. She’s in her office and we are enjoying the sun.”

“But I think that maybe a very small part, a kind of an illusion if you like, of a far bigger reality that its all one. Us, her, the friend in hospital, the book, what she read out. It’s all connected. Maybe each is just a part of a whole unified field of possible and emerging reality?”

We sit in silence, I don’t know how long, and look out across the park.

“We are onto something”, you say as we get up.

“We can’t stop now. We have to keep searching. Got to find out how this whole thing really works. Not just what’s on the surface, but the really deep stuff behind what we see and touch.”

“Yes, this is really important. It’s life important!”

“Let’s talk soon.”

What’s been your experience?

How does a tap give value to water? It just moves it or restricts it. And, if we are heading for excellence we are not reaching the tip of the triangle. We turn it upside down and go for the wide top.

The tap represents you. Water flows through the tap. A kite flows through your life. People, events, things flow in and out of your life. Leave them in better condition from having been in your life. Do not try to hold on to people or things in your life. The more you give out, the more that can flow in.

Can anybody make their passion work? Can I study something that doesn’t give me a clear profession, even if I value security?

Passion: It is waking all the time.

Clear profession: What value do you want to create? What work/profession best enables you to create and offer your value? All work is changing. You are the change.

Security: It is you. It is not external. All is changing. Know yourself. Be yourself. Accept yourself. You are your career. The profession is a framework within which you can express (create and offer) your value.

How do you start a business when the starting situation is a huge mortgage?

How could you start or run your own business without a huge mortgage? E.g. Dell Computers. They get paid before they make the product.

A hobby is a hobby. There are millions of people who are more educated and professional in their hobby area. Can I really have my hobby as my career?

Each of us is unique. We attract to ourselves those who can benefit from what we can offer and the way we offer it. What you do can be an expression of what you most enjoy offering to them.

Why do people try to become someone else in order to succeed? And even employers are trying to force employees into a single form style. In applications everybody’s “lying” about the same things, forcing themselves into being “open” and “positive”, because they think that’s what they have to be. Large companies take advantage of the desperate.

Because they are not clear about their own unique value. Be true to who you are. That is when you are in your power. Being like someone else puts you outside your power.